Ares Land wrote: ↑Wed Jul 29, 2020 12:32 pm
I'm terribly sorry, and I know that wasn't adressed at me, but could you rephrase that? I think you're onto something, but I'm not quite sure I get what you mean.
Uh, there is no deep inner meaning.
1. Your immediate family's livelihood is threatened.
2. Ensuring its survival forces you work a job that compromises your dignity.
3. This leads to frustration.
4. You repress the frustration to do your job well.
5. The frustration is expressed through meaningless associations with everything in society. As may be expected.
Ares Land wrote: ↑Wed Jul 29, 2020 12:32 pm
No, it's not really about forcing emotions; it's more like realizing some of the stuff you care about is phoney. Oh, and also that shit happens, and it's never the end of the world.
I learned about Stoicism a long time ago. Correct me if I've forgotten things.
In Stoicism, I don't like the idea of meeting your fate with dignity. This "fate" is created by the dignity with which its victims go to it. Unlike the Greeks, I think laws of nature are abstract physical mechanisms, not fate.
So what is the alternative? Every single victim should make such a big mess every single time that "fate" itself is overturned. Even if we can't change the outcome for ourselves, we may be able to collectively change them for others.
Think I'm exaggerating? People in India are not protecting themselves from Covid-19 because "whoever is fated for it will get it." Yes, really. Stoic sages didn't fight for the people against tyrannical Roman emperors and went to "meet their fate with dignity". You don't know what you can and cannot change until you try to change it collectively.
In Buddhism, I additionally don't like the idea of emotional transformation. Existential weight is in the words, not the feelings. The school of grammarians were right about that, but they were wrong to think that Sanskrit is special.
Edit: Somehow I managed to change "Ares Land" to "Linguoboy". Sorry.