Linguoboy wrote: ↑Mon May 03, 2021 9:39 pm
Ares Land wrote:On other issues, I think activists would benefit from taking an outside view. Conservatives see trans rights as scary and weird and let's face it, it is sometimes scary and weird. To take but one example, the sudden public shaming of J.K. Rowling is scary and weird.
How though?
Honestly, I don't know. If I was any good at it, I'd be
world dictator by know in politics.
Some people you just can't reach. You'll never convince the kind of conservatives that believe in cancel culture. Like the proverbial pigeon, they'll just prance around spreading shit everywhere. The thing is,
we still have to do it. That's because debates are for the benefit of the audience. The purpose is to win the silent majority over.
It seems to me the more radical socially liberal people (aka 'woke people', but it's a term I'd rather avoid) mostly function as an ingroup. There's a lot of focus on internal turf wars, and sometimes what is discussed is arcane to the outsider. Mostly they gave up on debate. I do understand why. But what it means is that a) they come across as unwilling to accept contradiction (which is wrong! but I'm only talking about appearances here) b) right-wingers get to debate strawmen c) those that still engage with outsiders are, shall we say, not the sharpest or sanest people.
Feminism is an interesting case study. Mostly, feminists have given up on men altogether, and never consider trying to convince men. I do believe that's a perfectly natural decision, and probably best for their sanity.
Where do we go from there, though? At some point nothing will happen if they don't have men on their side. The plan seems to be to give up on the current generation, and place all hopes on the next one. Which is a great plan until the kids are 13 or so.
By which point, their ideas are entirely out of reach of their parents and will keep being so for at least ten years. Guess who they'll be getting their cues from?
It's interesting to look at what conservatives are doing. They're trying to convince everyone across the board, but especially focus on troubled young males from their teens to about 25.
That's a great demographic for many reasons: they start out with a lot of unquestioned assumptions in mind (which happen to border on conservative anyway), are eager to learn and generally unhappy and willing to find out why. Conveniently, right-wingers are right there, lying in wait, very happy to explain to them how stuff works and what exactly is wrong with the world.
(Then, conveniently, once they're older, they end up pretty much running the show because that's how the world works.)
This is exactly the kind of demographic the left should try to win over, and doesn't. Again, I get why. That kind of kids are nasty pieces of work already, I should know, I was one. I sure as heck don't want to be spending time around my 20-year old self and as I recall, I barely could stand myself back then. And yet, you know, these are kids that are willing to learn and understand things (and will end up running the show.)
Another thing right-wingers did is completely deflect their "nasty and annoying" public image towards the lefties. Now, your average right winger is a smart, friendly and funny guys making jokes at the expense of easily outraged, bigoted leftists.
The left isn't bigoted; but it's not making enough jokes. Make fun of the aging old fart terrified of trans girls. Don't be afraid to make fun of yourself.
Remember, South Park and Pepe Frog did more to elect Trump than all the campaign money in the world.
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South Park is a great example, BTW. The target demographic was I believe very liberal when it started airing. It wasn't afraid to shoot at conservative targets when they deserved it, it was viciously funny, and the right-wing messages they got through were either so subtle you didn't notice, or so over the top you couldn't help laughing.)
I should add that conservatives were good at this stuff about ten years ago, but now that seems in decline. The dog-whistling is now so elaborate you don't understand a single word they say, plus I don't think they're winning anyone over with conspiracy theories or oddly specific moral panics, so there's reason for hope. (Or despair, depending on whose side you're on.)
Moose-tache wrote: ↑Tue May 04, 2021 1:26 am
Plus there have been at least three discrete attempts by Rowling to dig herself in deeper. She's had nothing but chances to walk it back thanks to her enormous cultural reach, and she's chosen the opposite. There is no "there but for the grace of God go I" about it. It's not sudden. It's not scary. This isn't Lindsey Ellis getting canceled accidentally by an algorithm. This is a bed she's been making on purpose for years.
Oh, sure, she's a nasty piece of work all right. But as I recall, my first exposure to the debacle ;were people repeatedly going 'TERF' at her on Twitter. I didn't even know what a TERF was. That was, yeah, kind of weird.
The internet is stuffed full of elaborate think pieces about how the other side could be better, which will never be seen by the other side. That's mainly a consequence of the perfectly bifurcated media landscape. It used to be a lot harder for a conservative to never hear a liberal speak or vice versa. Now you have to go out of your way to hear someone who disagrees with you.
Yep. to which the solution is to get out of your way and find people you disagree with and even dislike.