keenir wrote: ↑Tue Apr 15, 2025 2:43 am
…when my eyes cooperated, i saw matriclans and patriclans - which confused me, as i wasn't sure if you meant, for example, matrilocal or matriarchal or something else.
No.
Matriarchal means ruled by mothers; it’s typically misused as a synonym for gynocracy.
Matrilocal means that at least some adult children (e.g. nearly all unmarried sons and/or nearly all unmarried daughters) continue living with their mother until they marry; and even after marrying, at least one child stays living with their mother, and that child’s spouse moves in with them. (In those of matriclans where ownership of real estate is passed from mother to daughter, usually daughters (at least the heiress) are matrilocal after marriage, whereas husbands are uxorilocal after marriage.)
I’m talking about matrilineal descent groups: A clan in which, at birth, every person inherits membership from their mother; they are born a member of their mother’s clan.
Patriarchal means ruled by fathers. It’s often (mis)used to mean a society in which only men can hold influential or powerful titles or positions; and even then, only the old men.
Patrilocal means kids stay living with their father until the kid marries; and when the kid marries the husband continues to live with his father, whereas the wife is virilocal; she moves in with her husband. It may be that only the heir continues to permanently reside with his father. If the patriclan is thus used to control ownership of real estate, it will pass from father to son.
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that said...I would presume that it’s historical happenstance that some cultures do either-or, while other cultures do both.
I think that’s sometimes (maybe often?) the default outcome when there’s no strong reason it should be something else. But in most cases it’s not just happenstance; or, at least, so say some experts whose names I don’t recall (sorry!).
There’s a real-life society in which patriclans control all the real-estate but matriclans control all the moveable property. That’s just the opposite of what I want one of my concultures to do.
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In societies where most food is obtained by farming, real estate is the most important good and most important capital.
If farms must be plowed, but people are the only available draft animals, it’s likely that men have the strength to pull a plow, but women don’t.
Even if strength is not the gender-difference at play, a man can keep working the fields no matter
which phase of pregnancy how pregnant his wife is
in; while after a few months of pregnancy a mother can’t do the strenuous field-work in addition to the work of gestating her child. And after the child is delivered, while the mother is suckling the baby, the mother probably can’t go work in the fields. And after the baby has grown teeth and can eat solid food, until they can walk and talk, someone will have to take charge of them for most of the day on most days; that “someone” is likely to remain their mother, even when it no longer
has to be, just because inertia is usually less effortful than changing what’s always been.
Suppose, additionally, arable land and livable residences and one’s family must be protected from occasional groups of violent humans (or wild animals). There are likely to be good reasons the burden for such a defense must be borne more by the men than by the women.
For such reasons, most societies that reckon kinship by unilineal descent groups are strictly patrilineal and not anything else.
Most societies which reckon kinship by unilineal descent groups, but not exclusively by patriclans, are purely matrilineal; society is exhaustively divided into mutually exclusive matriclans, and every person is assigned, at birth, to the clan their mother is in.
And though they are a minority, there are nevertheless still societies in which kinship is reckoned by use of both patriclans and matriclans.
In societies that use patriclans to define kinship, if one traces EGO’s father’s ancestors purely son-to-father, and likewise traces ALTER’s father’s ancestors purely son-to-father, and winds up at a common patrilineal ancestor of both, then EGO and ALTER
are “kin to” each other.
If there’s no other way used to define kinship, then this society’s kin groups are patriclans.
In societies that use matriclans to define kinship, if one traces EGO’s mother’s ancestresses purely daughter-to-mother, and likewise traces ALTER’s mother’s ancestresses purely daughter-to-mother, and winds up at a common matrilineal ancestress of both, then EGO and ALTER are kin to each other.
If there’s no other way used to define kinship, then this society’s kin groups are matriclans.
In some societies kinship is reckoned both by patriclans and by matriclans. The societies I’m asking about are those in which both of the above means are used to define kinship; (and, probably, no other means than those two are used to define kinship).
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ps: modus vivendi? isn't its continued existence the modus vivendi of any traditional clan?
I think (I could be wrong) you’re talking about raison d’^etre. Reason for existing, not way of living.
If the soil is so stony that farming requires the strength and labor of two men, many marriages might consist of a wife and two husbands. The husbands may usually be brothers to each other. If a husband must from time to time travel away on business for some time —— for some reason I’ve got “four or more consecutive months” in my head —— they may be very glad of the fact that his brother is staying behind to look after their wife.
Or, suppose all the men are warriors. Suppose they know they’ll be required to serve two four-month terms away from their wife’s home every year. When a man comes home he comes to wherever his wife is living. It probably seems reasonably likely to everyone that one couldn’t reasonably expect a woman to act “celibate” for eight months a year. But circumstances may be arranged so that she almost always can choose her lover from among her husband’s close relatives. For instance, suppose men officially reside in the house in which they were born, while women officially reside in their husband’s house. I may be wrong, but, I think that means the other men in that house will probably all be close relatives of her husband.
Or, suppose all livings are earned on the sea by fishing. Men own the important stuff — fishing boats and fishing gear — while women own the houses and the land the houses are built on. The piers and docks and those stretches of beach they’re on, will be the property of various corporations of several men; namely, patriclans. The boat’s owner will be its captain until he has to retire; then his son will become captain until the first man dies; then the son becomes the boat’s owner as well as its captain.
Meanwhile, a woman’s house and its attached land, will be passed on to one of her daughters when she dies.
These are examples of the kind of
modus vivendi I meant; the means by which that particular group of people have managed to overcome the environmental challenges, and inhabit that land for many generations. As you can see, sometimes such things can make certain kinds of kinship structures be preferable to the alternatives.
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I hope that helps! Thank you for responding to my question.
[EDIT:] There are societies in which kinship is reckoned by other means; neither patriclans nor matriclans. [/EDIT]