In North America, there's a third option, the suburbs. According to Pew Research, 14% of the US population is rural, 31% is urban, and 55% suburban. There's a lot to say for the suburban lifestyle: you get a big lot of your own, you can work in the city and visit whenever you want, it's safe and quiet.Ares Land wrote: ↑Tue Sep 08, 2026 3:34 am I've come to realize that most people fall squarely into two categories: city mice and country mice. City mice find the country boring, backwards and unsanitary, country mice view cities as wretched hives of scum and villainy. It never seems to occur to anyone in either category that their preferences aren't universaland that in fact, both forms of human habitation (and in fact, there are a lot more intermediate options) are legitimate.
My own view is that I have a hunch that concentrating 80% of the population in the cities as we do now is perhaps not ideal and probably doesn't fit people's actual preferences.
It's also ecologically inefficient, and the local temptation is always for more sprawl. Which is a problem: developers only pay part of the cost of expanding town services, and those services may get more expensive while not really getting a larger taxpayer base. Plus traffic gets really tedious. There are trains but they were built for the population density of a century ago. The restaurant and entertainment options are subpar.
Anyway, for a better society I think the question is just how to make both rural and urban lives better.
(I certainly don't despise rural life-- my brother has lived in a small town for fifty years and he loves it. Though he jokes that after that time he's only slightly considered a newcomer.)
My impression-- though it's been decades since I've been there-- is that European cities are far more pleasant... but don't know how to achieve density.