Raphael wrote: ↑Sat Apr 22, 2023 1:49 am
The main problem I have with the notion of "white fragility" is that it exoticizes and pathologizes behavior that doesn't strike me as the slightest bit exotic or pathological. The idea seems to be that, when white react badly to being constantly trash-talked, that's a special pathology of white people, rather than, say, a result of the fact that white people are human beings, and human beings generally often react badly to it when they get constantly trash-talked.
One possible retort to that would be that white people inherently
deserve being constantly trash-talked. Now, first, I don't think
anyone deserves being trash-talked for having been born into the wrong demographic groups. But second, even if white people really would inherently deserve being constantly trash-talked, that still wouldn't change the basic psychological dynamics at work. Human beings tend to react badly to it when they get constantly trash-talked,
even if they do, in fact, deserve getting trash-talked.
All social justice movements seem to struggle with this. See also feminism... people seem to get mad when they write articles or tweets or whatever that, broadly summarised, amount to "men suck" and then other people reply with "not all men", but this is how every human group behaves. If you write something saying "women suck", you get at least as many people showing up to say "not all women" or even "not any woman".
And I guess the challenge of a social justice movement is to both convey the problem and demand a solution, but allow "good" members of the group you have problems with to feel like they can join your side without always being a suspect or provisional member. If you go too hard on "group X sucks and is inherently awful" then all you do is incentivise group X to consolidate and do a lot of motivated reasoning to describe why you suck instead. But since the average person likes working with broad brush stereotypes, it's really hard to avoid much of the movement just devolving into "group X is the eternal enemy and incompatible with all that's right in the world".
Another example where I personally experience the same backlash is Scottish nationalism. Officially, if you listen to the leaders of the movement, it's a civic nationalist movement, enlightened, etc. On the other hand, the vast majority of my actual observations and interactions as an Englishman on the topic with Indy supports has been something that devolved to very simplistic slogans along the lines of "The English suck and are oppressing us". The leadership can try to project a positive message, but then at the level of the average supporter you get stereotyping of an entire nation as the eternal Enemy.
This isn't meant to single out either feminism or Scottish nationalism, more to say that all large groups of people are the same. They all tend to group together the outgroup into a handy evil stereotype to simplistically hate, and in doing so provoke that outgroup to consolidate against them if it hasn't already, and form or reinforce their own stereotypes. Which then means that a set of objectively often pretty reasonable asks gets embedded as a political / culture war thing forever and most people stop actually engaging with the other side.
It'd be nice if people could avoid or reduce rhetoric that converts "X and people who do X are bad and need to be stopped" to "people vaguely associated via some intrinsic property they can't change with the people who do X are bad and need to be stopped", but that doesn't really seem to be possible for any big political movement.
If you want to win and actually make the world better for your group, you generally need to leave the door open to a wider coalition without making anyone from the outside who joins up "one of the few good ones" (i.e. the exception to the rule that the group they come from inherently sucks). So excessive stereotyping or collective sin is not just bad, it's bad politics. In a perfect world, bad and alienating rhetoric wouldn't affect the chance of quickly achieving justice, but we don't really live in that world, and it's very hard for most people to consider themselves allies to a group whose majority openly seems to despise them regardless of whether they've done specific set of bad things or not.